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What does the Bible say about pride?


While there's nothing wrong with sharing our accomplishments or news that we're excited about, there's a difference between simply sharing our joy vs. bragging to get attention and praise. There's a difference between accepting a compliment and using that moment to boost your ego. How can we tell the difference? Well, there are two basic kinds of pride: a self-righteous pride and the pride we feel from healthy, positive feelings about ourselves or accomplishments.

Self-righteous Pride

First, we have self-righteous pride, which is giving yourself credit for what you are and what you have done WHILE completely forgetting that God is the reason for all good things (James 1:17). Psalm 10:4 says that the proud are so full of themselves that they have forgotten all about God: “In his pride the wicked does not seek him; in all his thoughts there is no room for God.” God hates this kind of pride (Proverbs 8:13).

This kind of pride can have negative consequences in ourselves, our lives, or the lives of those around us. Proverbs 16:18-19 says that “pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall. Better to be lowly in spirit and among the oppressed than to share plunder with the proud.” This sort of haughty spirit is opposite from the spirit of humility that we are called to practice (Matthew 5:3).

Our greatest enemy, Satan, was thrown out of Heaven because of his pride (Isaiah 14:12-15). His pride was so intense that he thought he could replace God Himself as the rightful king of everything.

To an extent, we sometimes do this too. We think we're good enough to run our lives completely on our own. We make ourselves high royalty of all things. But in reality, we have no power or ability apart from God (John 6:63). For those who rise up against God in their pride, there is nothing but bad news ahead (Isaiah 14:22). For those who think they're better than everyone else, they're only fooling themselves.

"Do you see a man who is wise in his own eyes? There is more hope for a fool than for him." —Proverbs 26:12

Just Feeling Good

On the other hand, the kind of pride we feel from a job well done—like doing well on a test, making cool art, or landing a job. It's totally natural to feel good about something good that you have made or done. This kind of pride is perfectly fine as long as you don't forget that God allowed it to happen. We are who we are because of God. Sharing information for the sole purpose of getting praised is bragging and not something we ought to make a habit of doing (2 Corinthians 10:13)

How do I humbly handle compliments?

If someone compliments you, it's totally OK to say "thank you" and smile. However, there's no reason to keep fishing and digging for compliments by drawing it out with a conversation that goes something like this:

"Your drawing is amazing!"

"Yeah, thanks, but it was all God."

"Oh, no, you're so good at art."

"It's a gift from God. What can I say?"

"You are sooooo talented!"

That's using God as a way to keep drawing compliments out of people's mouths. But just saying "thank you" will work and kindly respect the person who paid the compliment. No need to go on and on and turn it into boasting. No need to dwell on how pretty our pictures turned out or how many likes we got on our profile pic. It's easy to fall into that trap, but we can't allow ourselves to do something purely for the purpose of stroking our egos.

"Do nothing out of selfish ambition or empty pride, but in humility consider others more important than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others." —Philippians 2:3-4

As you can see in this verse, the key is putting OTHERS before ourselves. Rather than doing things to make ourselves look better or feel better out of pride, our focus should be building others up and encouraging others (Hebrews 10:24). So we divert the attention back to someone else, away from our pride and into humility.

There's nothing wrong with feeling good about yourself and having self-worth. We are NOT called to hate ourselves. Rather, we ought to humbly remember that God gave those gifts and talents, that job, our intelligence, etc. (1 Corinthians 4:7).

Self-righteous pride gives the credit to ourselves when the credit should really go to God. That kind of pride takes all the glory away from God and puts it around our own faces. In a way, pride is worshipping ourselves. God is the only one who deserves the credit and glory for the good things in our lives (1 Corinthians 10:31). But the healthy feeling of being proud of something good God has made a part of your life is certainly beneficial for our mental and spiritual health.

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TL;DR

Self-righteous pride gives the credit to ourselves when the credit should really go to God (Psalm 10:40; Proverbs 8:13). But this kind of pride is destructive (Proverbs 16:18-19) and the opposite from the spirit of humility that we are called to practice (Matthew 5:3). On the other hand, it's natural to feel good about an accomplishment and is fine as long as you remember that God gave you those gifts and talents (1 Corinthians 4:7). As Christians, we should still be humble and avoid bragging about our accomplishments (2 Corinthians 10:13). So a simple, polite "thank you" works great. No need to go on and on and turn it into boasting.

Writer/Editor: Catiana (Cat)

Cat is the web producer and editor of 412teens.org. She is known as "412teens" on the 412teens Discord. She loves audiobooks, feeding the people she cares about, and using Christmas lights to illuminate a room. When Catiana is not cooking, gardening, or practicing creativity, she enjoys spending time with her two kids, five socially-awkward cats, and her amazing friend-amily.

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