What should I do after graduation?
"Many are the plans in the mind of a man, but it is the purpose of the Lord that will stand." —Proverbs 19:21
Moving between the different stages of life can be exciting, confusing, overwhelming, and scary—all at once. And it's OK to have all those feelings. There's no "right" way to feel when we're going through changes in life. Eagerness for change AND nervous anticipation can exist in the same space.
Whether it's gaining a new family member, starting a new relationship, graduating from high school, becoming a part of the workforce, or moving your whole life to a new city or country, God is there. He can help guide us with logistics, choices, and courage as we make those life transitions (Romans 8:28; Romans 12:2).
"Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect." —Romans 12:2
Connecting to Wisdom
"All Scripture is inspired by God and is useful to teach us what is true and to make us realize what is wrong in our lives. It corrects us when we are wrong and teaches us to do what is right." —2 Timothy 3:16 (NLT)
The Bible is full of encouragement about living our lives in ways that are wise and beneficial (e.g., John 3:16; Zephaniah 3:17; 1 Peter 5:6-7; Psalm 86:15; Philippians 2:1-11; Colossians 3:17, 23). We can find guidance about relationships, school and work, and generally just how to glorify Him in the many decisions we have to make.
When we're facing big transitions like graduating from school, moving out, or moving on in life, we can rest in the assurance that God is right there with us, paying attention to what we need and caring about our path. When we call on Him, God will always be there to answer in whatever way is best (James 4:8; Luke 15).
So it's important that we stay connected to Him as we make plans for the future—especially through transitions (Proverbs 16:3; James 4:13-15). Read His Word, talk to Him, and don't be afraid to discuss your plans with your parents, a wise mentor, or career counselor at your school.
Finding Practical Assistance
"Plans go wrong for lack of advice; many advisers bring success." —Proverbs 15:22 (NLT)
You don't have to have all the answers, and you don't have to go it alone. Along with allowing God to help guide you in decisions about your future, it's important that you bring in others who know you and care about you. Their advice can be vital in giving you knowledge, perspective, and confidence moving forward (Proverbs 15:22).
Take advantage of any resources you have access to at your school or within your communities. Maybe your school has a career counselor or connections to continuing education organizations. Maybe you have family members or neighbors who are teachers and can give you some advice. Maybe you have siblings, cousins, or friends who are a few years older than you and can share their experiences. Maybe your library has classes for high school seniors or other resources that are free for teens to use.
Discovering Your Options
Although it's typical for high school graduates to pursue continuing education—such as going to a 4-year college, tech school, or trade school—that isn't the only option. The world is full of opportunities of all different kinds, and where you go depends so much upon your passions, interests, and availability.
Some graduates join the military, or travel abroad, or start working, or volunteer, or develop their own business. Some take some time to work and save money while they decide where they want to go next. There's no strict timeline and whatever you choose doesn't have to be the one thing you do for the rest of your life.
Most people will change careers, live in different places, and meet new people all throughout their lives. Your life is an ongoing journey that grows and changes. It's OK to choose something to do now, then change your mind in a few years. We are constantly evolving and developing as human beings—our interests change, our circumstances change...and it's all good. This is how we live.
Discovering Your Purpose
As you think about where you want to go after graduation, take some time to reflect upon your life. What have you most enjoyed learning in school? What special interests have you developed over the last several years? In what activities, programs, or clubs have you found the most fulfillment? Where have you loved serving others? Who are the people you have a heart for? What do you believe you're good at? If those questions feel too hard, try asking trusted friends what they believe about you. That can at least get you started.
These kinds of questions about the deepest parts of your soul will help you discover that your pursuit of purpose is not tied to doing the exact "right" thing after graduation. Rather, the point and the purpose of your life is about bringing God with you and glorifying Him—no matter what you do or where you go.
You Can't Go Wrong
"Work willingly at whatever you do, as though you were working for the Lord rather than for people. Remember that the Lord will give you an inheritance as your reward, and that the Master you are serving is Christ." —Colossians 3:23-24 (NLT)
God created each of us with absolute love and care and knows us completely (Psalm 139:13–18). We have been designed to do good things in this world, and our Heavenly Father wants to join us as we do so (Ephesians 2:10). He's willing and able to guide us to the paths that will bring the most fulfillment to us and to Him (Romans 8:28).
We're allowed to make choices freely about where our lives lead (Galatians 5:1; James 1:25), using wisdom from the Holy Spirit and the "mind of Christ" (John 16:13; 1 Corinthians 2:16). If your heart's desire is to glorify God (1 Corinthians 10:31), there isn't a "wrong" choice you can make about your path after high school graduation. Rest in the assurance that God is on your side—and He's cheering for you. Along with us!
"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light." —Matthew 11:28-30
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TL;DR
We're allowed to make choices freely about where our lives lead (Galatians 5:1; James 1:25), using wisdom from the Holy Spirit and the "mind of Christ" (John 16:13; 1 Corinthians 2:16). If your heart's desire is to glorify God (1 Corinthians 10:31), there isn't a "wrong" choice you can make about your path after high school graduation. Rest in the assurance that God is on your side—and He's cheering for you. Along with us!
Writer & Managing Editor: Catiana (Cat)
Cat is the web producer and managing editor of 412teens.org. She is known as "412teens" on the 412teens Discord. She loves audiobooks, feeding the people she cares about, and using Christmas lights to illuminate a room. When Cat is not cooking, gardening, or practicing creativity, she enjoys spending time with her two adult kids, six socially-awkward cats, and her amazing friend-amily.
